Tuesday, February 23, 2010

My husband...

...deserves the best husband "gold star" this week!

The story.

This past weekend I was talking with a long time dear friend, A. Sometime into our conversation she mentioned having the utmost respect for Charles with him sticking beside me during the last four plus years of this infertility journey. Then she went on to say that so many men she knows/knew would not have stuck with their wives for this long if they so desired to be parents and yet she could not give them children and yet again how she respects Charles for doing so.

And in a weird way I found comfort and was reminded of just how absolutely amazing my husband is... He is amazing. He reminds me when I have moments of our infertility be a me problem that it is indeed a we problem...

So I sent him a text {he was at work of course} and told him of my conversation with A and what she had said. Then I thanked him for being him and this is the response I got back that absolutely made my heart mush and I've completely fallen in love with this amazing man all over again!!!

"I would rather never ever have a child if it meant I couldn't have you"

Wow.

That is an amazing man God has so blessed to be my husband... We've been married for 6 1/2 years and I feel like I've fallen in love with him for the very first time this past weekend!

My heart is so overwhelmed with love for him that I so want a family with him to share this overflowing love I have and to make him a daddy all the more!!!

I'm one lucky women... And I know it. Which makes the good times all the better!

7 comments:

Melis.sa said...

That is so sweet of your DH!!

It's nice that you found the good out of what your friend was saying too because honestly I would have been irked ;)

[cre] said...

Oh that is making me cry! True love is amazing.

The Millers said...

Oh, I just got chills! What a sweet and wonderful husband!!

Cathy said...

He needs a whole chart of gold stars for that comment alone :) So glad you two have each other!

Traci said...

Can he start a husband training camp?

mom said...

I have watched both of you grow and am very proud of both of you! The level of trials you two have endured breaks up many marriages. You are both very blessed that it has strengthened yours.

squirrelgirl said...

He's a keeper, for sure :-)